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Getting a Woman to Be Your Girlfriend
Simply sign up and start chatting with girls you'd like to become your lady friend. Just act casual and don't try being someone you're not. Women prefer honest guys over deceitful supermen. Just follow these simple steps and you'll see it's not as hard as it seems.
Think it through
If you've found a girl who makes you feel special and you think it's mutual, then chances are she'd be a fantastic girlfriend. Asking someone to be your girl friend is a serious thing, 'cause most women will only move forward when they can picture themselves eventually marrying you. They're not just looking for casual sex. So make her feel special and spend a lot of time with her. Always give her the benefit of the doubt.
Always behave appropriately
If she rejects you, be cool about it. There are so many reasons she might not want to be your girlfriend. She might have feelings for someone else at the moment, or is already seeing you as a pal (rather than a romantic interest). Whatever her motives, it is important not to put her down or act as if you don't care about her anymore. This can show you are mature and practical, and enables you to continue your friendship. Who knows, you might get another shot in the future!
Whether she agrees to be your girlfriend or turns you down, your actions after you pop the question can set the tone for the remainder of the relationship. If she says yes, tell her how thrilled you are to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Put your cards on the table and enjoy the moment. Show your excitement.
Make sure she likes you
If she's sending you mixed signals, spend a little more time with her until you feel confident about how she feels. Don't ruin your chances by asking her too early. If you're just getting to know her and you start stalking her straight away, she'll say no because she does not understand you well enough. The resulting awkwardness might decrease your odds to zero. She will probably think you're a weirdo.
Tune in to what she says and notice her body-language. Don't just nod and wait until you can have your say. Oh, and without being overly apparent, you should be able to check in with her buddies to see if she's really digging you.
Wishing you the best of luck!